I WON primary legal & physical child custody. I WON child support. I WON our home. I DIDN’T PAY alimony. I DIDN’T PAY spousal support. My STBX (soon to be ex) paid some of MY court costs and got visitation every other weekend. She worked full-time, didn’t have a seedy past and we raised our children together for 10+ years. Still I WON.